@harajuku_pearl I think the guy choose the first girl so he can get to the friend. He might persue the relationship until he meets the friend in some family/friend gathering.
@SimpleAfro@Lrnmosima You deal with them how you used to deal with them while alive. Example If you used to buy your grandpa beer while alive, buy the same beer, take to his grave, drink first & pour it on the grave, say what's in your heart & don't forget to greet first.
@zamathongom@Lrnmosima Watch season 1 of Moya, Thembi was the medium there... were she spoke to a pregnant lady who recently got married and her late grandparents thanked her for doing the Yongo part of a traditional wedding and in result she they gifted her a child.
@Lrnmosima Depends on mediums focus, nega/positive side of things example Cindy on Netflix chose to focus on a positive side of things cause she can't explain some black people things, while Thembi deals with hinderances in your life to providing resolution.