Cause I’ve grown up in a country where marriage & having kids is the worst thing to happen to women as many men are shitty fathers and husbands, I do not see why one would say they’re a radfem and willingly get married off of the chance that “he’s not like the others”
I really do loathe when radfem convos on here get to the “well I don’t think you should harass/namecall/guilt trip porn stars/wives/mothers” point
irl idc that u call urself a radfem and ur married with kids, it just seems contradictory to me but then again im probably biased—
I get the sentiment but they do find it funny actually, there’s so many text screenshots on this app of “boy besties” saying misogynistic stuff and cis women laughing about it
@xoticbutterflyy@wlwningning Yeah the phrasing is iffy but intersectionality has been co-opted to mean basically even women who are patriarchal agents should be included in feminism so I get the statement
Anyway most of the radfem authors I read were married and/or had kids so clearly this has always been an issue that’s why I’m quiet when it comes to idolizing radfem authors
The people who shit on radfem twt are right atp all you guys do is shit on trans ppl like that’s all radical feminism is about, you can still be a liberal feminist who hates trans ppl I promise
That's your opinion. Not all radfems are lesbians, and some radfems want children. That is completely normal and their lives are none of your business.
We're all doing our best in life, and we have to follow our dreams and personal values. This time on earth is all we get.
People will be okay with misogynistic kinks, CNC, DDLG, and rough, degrading sex before they’re okay with people exclusively liking vagina.
#HowDatWork?
I get why feminist spaces try to treat pregnancy as this next level godly thing but it’s still body horror to me with more cons than pros #sorry#notadvocatingforharrassingpregnantwomen