When an edgelord says "I hate niggers," what he means is that he's still going to help the little old black lady in a wheelchair get her groceries from a high shelf without her needing to ask first.
When a Leftist says "We just want free healthcare," what they mean is that they'll publicly cheer if you get murdered in front of your children for mildly disagreeing with Leftism on Facebook.
This is such an alien mindset for me as a man, because being friends with someone and gradually having it evolve into a relationship seems like the ideal scenario. It shows that they don't just like you for shallow reasons. You already like each, now you can love each other.
Being falsely accused of rape is worse than being raped.
This is a hill I'm willing to die on.
When you are raped, everyone pities & support you & they do everything possible to help you heal.
But when you are falsely accused of rape, even though you might be found innocent later on, the stain remains forever.
Most won't remember that you are innocent, they will keep on calling you a rapist until you die. And you will lose a lot of opportunities because no one wants to be associated with you.
When you are not found innocent, you are fucked. Because you will spend a large chunk of your life in prison (if not all) and there's nothing you can do about it but pray.