i like how for a certain set of millennial women “go piss girl” has become an automatic polite social response in the vein of saying “bless you” but for peeing
i loved the slow burn of becoming myself, this is true romance and intimacy, learning what brings me the most pleasure and happiness. it takes so much trust and presence to let this beautiful journey unfold and i’d do it every time because i have immense self-love.
once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. bc they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. people rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.
you can just say things, it doesn't even need to make sense. my barista told me she's upping her sertraline dose and I said "that's so art deco" and she agreed.