@HeartMattaz Lol, a lady can be too focused chasing her dreams and ambition... It doesn't make it too late for her to see a responsible man... Because it's not about finding a man... It's about finding the right man.
May the lord help you and guard your heart my sister โค๏ธ.
@Wizarab10 Well, since you said you've learnt alot of things about love and relationship from it... That's to show you that NOT EVERYBODY IS MEANT TO BE WITH YOU FOREVER... Some are just meant to play a part in our story... Think about the whole situation like HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU.He lost
@Wizarab10 It's not as if it's bad that you used the money but instead of you coming here to type... You could transfer that same energy into letting her understand where to and how you spent part of the money... And don't just explain, give her a sure date on when you'll pay her back ๐โค๏ธ
@Wizarab10 Lol ... ๐
Chineke mo... This matter no fit die down anytime soon, especially if she needed the money for something. Bruh, of all the places she could have kept the money, she concluded you were the safest person she could keep it with... Guess who betrayed the trust ๐๐๐
@TLwithcruise@instablog9ja Yh, I get it...
But women can be unpredictable at times... I also can't predict myself sometimes, so ๐ฉ๐
That's just my honest opinion
@Szymansk_ii Lol, I think the best answer is to ask her a question like this ...And her response and expressions should answer it... Can she tolerate her BROTHER staying in a marriage where the wife has cheated for 18 yrs... She should speak as a good big sister of course.
@instablog9ja Have something upstairs too. Lol, people tend to forget this part most of the time... Whereas, it matters as much as appearance does... You can be presentable and not be approachable
@Wizarab10 Forget he even exists bro... If he was really meant to be a part of your lifting, God will definitely touch his heart to remember you.
The first rule to overcoming this feeling is; 1. you forgetting he exists.
2. Stop talking about him to your friends
3. Find something doing
@Wizarab10 I'd advice that he forgets about that bestie... He should focus on the two girls' that are obsessed with him... And he should observe and pick either of them, it's not possible for him not to fall for at least one of them... And if it doesn't work, he should pray ๐ฉโค๏ธโ๐ฉน
@olamy96@Wizarab10 This is a wrong mentality. She might not be the problem, he might even be the problem. Nigerians should just stop overthinking and making women look like they are always the problem in marriages especially not in the financial aspect. The question is, why does she not have a job?