There’s those that consider #ddlg#petplay & other aspects of #bdsm only bedroom play or roleplay kink.
There’s those that live it everyday as part of their identity. A deep need in their interactions.
It’s ok to be part of any of those groups. Just recognize the difference!
Whenever she’s fallen into her safe space. The one she goes to when she’s shutdown. (Sometimes it’s not a physical but a mental. Or both) instead of scolding her, listen to her, comfort her. Even if that means you’ll wait silently by her side. Be patient, be loving, be open.
Genuine Daddy Doms, Owners & Masters hardly ever get appreciation & recognition. Tag someone you feel portrays a genuine approach to the lifestyle. Let them know they’re appreciated!
You are not my kink.
You are not a sex object.
You are not my release.
You only play one under
the privacy of our intimacy.
I’ll make sure you understand the difference.
You don’t have to be little in public or with strangers until you feel someone has earned your trust. People are quick to judge, point the finger and mock what they don’t understand. So it’s ok to take baby steps. Someone worth your time will come. Just be patient.