the wording on this is also disgusting & predatory too, saying this to mentally unwell people under the guise that if you do these things you’re protecting yourself from people who “don’t value”
you, to not reach out for help because it instantly makes you “vulnerable”, so gross.
im simply convinced these posts are made by predators or non disordered people because why would you ever want to help somebody ruin their life like this? this is a direct path to future suicide, it’ll take years to undo once you’re completely isolated.
i feel like i’m too disordered sometimes, not in a “best ana” way, i see so many people saying bmi 10-12 & below is ugly & too bony but i’d literally kill to get back down to that bmi again. i want to look like a decorated corpse again. i need to look like i’m about to die
@dyluuhn@sovietliliya posting to ed forums as a vent diary is not the same as telling people to delbriately kill themsleves and that they are selfish, regardless have the day you deserve! i hope you also recover from whatever illness you may have and learn to treat others with care
@sovietliliya & i understand that they wouldn’t be at risk of this if they weren’t on shedtwt, but it’s nobody’s responsibility other than the parent of a child to make sure they’re keeping their own child safe and out of these online spaces
@sovietliliya i understand that this community is totally unhealthy for the most part for influential children, but in that document they degrade people who self ahrm and purposefully go out of their way to rile children who’s only form of community is shedtwt into thinking they’ll lose what
@sovietliliya seems to be their only platform for having anyone their age to relate to. it doesn’t make it okay for them to be in this community, but this isint good intent. calling children who sh derogatory names, bodyshaming, & stalking them because they have mental health issues is ugly.
i’ve been stuck in a cycle for nearly a decade and it’s gotten so much worse over these last 4 years. i’ve spent so long reinforcing the relief i get from negative compulsions actually facing what makes me distressed seems almost impossible without trying to correct or fix
@kogumacutiee@astr6y i totally understand that now that you mention it,hence why i’m speaking for myself and others who may relate. less height makes you look heavier even if you’re at a small weight like 105, so of course as a short person, id hate it and consider it high for myself.
@anti_calorie@keIIybelly@astr6y i wasnt implying it was a high starting weight..i know it’s a low weight, being average bmi at what’s considered a low weight for most people & not looking like you’re at a low weight because you’re short is the issue i was talking about. i look heavier than i am because of this
@losing_lacy you’ve completely misconstrued my point. i’ve agreed that everyone can be sick, however symptoms and severity not the same for everyone and that’s okay to say. i thought that was obvious, but i’m not going to dote on this longer than necessary
@losing_lacy its true people can be dangerously malnourished at any bmi, but that doesn't make bmi irrelevant. extremely low bmi is associated with greater medical complications on average, though wl rate, vitals/labs matter asw. at any bmi, hw or lw both are valid & are to be taken seriously