i hate being around people who lack emotional intelligence & self-regulation. it just irks my soul. if you cannot see things outside of yourself and how you’re harming others, you will never evolve. intention has nothing to do with impact
my mom told me the difference btwn compromise and settling is you have to still be getting what you want when you compromise. it’s a shared win. settling is being okay with not getting what you want and that’s self betrayal.