@stararism people have to moralize their feelings because we focus too much on therapyspeak and "validity". when ppl dont like someone anymore, they rush for some "problematic" activity to cancel for . its never about that though, people just can't admit to themselves some1 is annoying
@stararism if ppl start hooking up alot it'll get complicated fast. with any group: the larger it gets -> the more annoying people there are -> the more drama
@solareyesed@sugar_tzu going out and not being able to doomscroll makes u feel alot better yeah.... its worth it but just be prepared to be annoyed. for me is a blessing