@aesferth well i was tweeting about my specific case? i dont know why yall are dead set on undermining me just because my transness isnt palatable for the cishets
@aesferth well i was tweeting about my specific case? i dont know why yall are dead set on undermining me just because my transness isnt palatable for the cishets
@THINGMUTT would i rather a scar that can heal over time and can be covered via tattooing or have to live with something thats brought me nothing but shame and dysphoria for my life
@THINGMUTT i know this was well-intentioned, but i can't say this was the best way to word your support. i know phallo is just a fake dick, but something is better than nothing and antiseptic and an ill-fitting bandaid is a lot better than leaving a wound open and rubbing dirt in it daily
@the_plinker@shdjksahdjkash i wanna hear "yeah im pre-op and my partner doesnt care at all" and i dont wanna hear "dont worry i LOVE boypussy" because the latter is odd and completely ignores my desire to change, while the former is reassurance that, even before i can afford to change, theres someone who'll
@the_plinker@shdjksahdjkash i totally get this, and its what the trans men in my comments mostly seemed to intend. i can't remember if i hid or blocked, but theres reassurance that your genitals arent a problem, and there's kinda singling you out for it
@torukittypie like i really appreciated the reassurance at first but i come back to my senses and "gay men like vag too!" just. reminds me ill never be a REAL man
i really appreciate people reassuring me, but a lot of responses to my post were also "dont worry. some of them LOOOOOVE your pussy!" like no. i hate my pussy and want it gone and never want to use it because its an eternal reminder that i basically was born disfigured