The biggest shock is that they’re so unkind to the people they claim to love, and then turn around to show strangers grace and kindness. The funniest thing. Horrible to people at home, and kind to people outside.
Having someone who realizes they've hurt you and fixes themselves is a rare and beautiful form of accountability; it is where love stops being a promise and finally becomes a practice.
I think people underestimate how tired you can be from just having too much on your mind! Not even physically tired! Just tired of remembering things, handling things, thinking ahead, fixing stuff, making decisions, being needed, tryna stay afloat etc. That's just a lot for real.
I always address everything, it’s super easy for resentment ( not to the point of nagging )to build if you don’t.
But then this only apply to relationships I’m interested in keeping tbh. The rest, nothing concern me.
It’s has been exactly a year and 5 months since I spoke to my husband for the last time and he told me he was on his way back to PH and was currently driving past at a military check point at Nnewi, few minutes later his number was unreachable and that was it.
So many abnormalities are happening in this country.
Minimum wage is 70k, but a passport costs 250k.
Minimum wage is 70k, but a local flight can cost 100k.
Minimum wage is 70k, but a driver’s licence costs 45k.
A year’s minimum wage is 840k, yet a room self-contained in central mainland can cost 1 million annually.
Minimum wage is 70k, but transportation to work alone can cost 30k a month.
Do we really have a government?
Mehn! Corporate is so funny, some days you will have little to no work to do and the next day everything is happening at once
Some days you will just know that you are really working for your salary😭
Boys are indeed getting creative and smarter, lots of people are going to fall for this scam. @FRSCNigeria please do something about this before it gets out of hand.
no one talks about the personality shift in your 30s where you no longer want to be impressive you just want to be rested, regulated, and completely unavailable to anything that drains you