i hate being around people who lack emotional intelligence and self-regulation. it just irks my soul. if you cannot see things outside of yourself and how you're harming others, you will never evolve. intention has nothing to do with impact
behind a girl who says “everything happens for a reason” or “it is what it is” is a girl who can’t understand what she did to deserve all the pain and traumas she’s gone through in her life
i would rather be alone than feel consistently neglected or taken for granted. if i can treat myself better than you can treat me then what are we really doing here.
I know some of you don’t want to hear it because you created this narrative that it’s easier to just give up & accept your situation but I’ll say it anyway just in case.
You always, ALWAYS have the power to create the reality you see fit no matter what. You just have to ask.
At this point in my life, it doesn’t matter how much I love you, how long I’ve known you, how much we’ve experienced together. If I feel a way about your actions, I’m gracefully removing myself from your life. I can’t change anyone and I don’t want to. I’m noticing now more than ever how people move and there’s just certain things I no longer want to put my energy into. People do exactly what they want regardless of your feelings, advice or opinions. Some people don’t notice your impact until your presence is no longer at their convenience✨
The older you get, the more you figure out who your real friends are. It's not always about who you've known the longest, it's about who makes you feel seen, heard, understood, appreciated, respected, supported, and loved.
I’ve learned the best way to kill something is to let it starve. No response, no action, no altercations, just don’t feed it. That’s where the true power lies.