girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules
I'M TELLING Y'ALLLL. Once you start praying more and saying less. YOU WON'T HAVE A WORRY IN THE WORLD!!! Life becomes so much easier for you when you give the situation to God. It was never yours to carry anyway!! After that, there's NO ACTION REQUIRED🙌🏾.
i've sat with myself for years. i analyzed everything i have done wrong, could have done better. and even still, i couldn't find a point in time where i deserved to be treated the way a lot of people treated me. but i still hold my head up and win in the end.
I wanna change so bad. I don't wanna get mad at everything, don't wanna react to everything, don't wanna care as much, don't wanna put energy into things that I shouldn't, don't wanna make in the moment decisions anymore, I just wanna change me for myself not for anybody else.
Call me weird, but this year I’m working on one thing and that’s staying quiet. I’m emotional, and when my feelings get hurt, I react too fast and too much. I’m learning that silence is powerful, peace is everything, and not everything deserves a reaction. Some things just aren’t worth it. So if you see me about to go on a rant this year… please remind me to chill
I think one of the biggest lessons I learned this year is that peace is something you build. It doesn’t just show up. You create it by letting go, setting boundaries, and refusing to carry what isn’t yours.
I’m grown enough to admit I’m not the easiest person to love. Life put me through a lot, so yeah… I overthink, I get triggered quick, I shut down, and sometimes I don’t even make sense. I’m sensitive as hell and I need patience.
But one thing about me? My love is REAL.