Lely

[Lely @llfrd_]

Me & mum have the same this line, “kalo pamer ya pamer aja gausah nyenggol2”.
Lagian punya duit dikit udh shombonk amat kaya duit anak2nya halal aja ups (yg dipamerin punya anaknya pula wkwk).

[Lely @llfrd_]

Ada temennya my mum telfon, biasa pamer orkay baru anaknya jd notaris atau lawyer atau apalah itu bidang hukum. “Anakku yg renov rumah total dan beliin ini itu, anakmu enggak sih. Anakmu makanya jgn abisin duitnya blabla” hehe ofc my mum bite back.

[Lely @llfrd_]

Dia siapa ngatur2 duitku mau buat apa wkwk she’s literally been in bed for years due to her ilness what do you know about me or my life, not that my parents will brag you about it.

Fortunately emak gampang cut off orang kalo toksik, bye bye.

[Lely @llfrd_]

Me to menyampaikan sefruit hikmah di hari Idul Adha ke my mother:

“Inget ya, kita lebih gampang kepeleset ke jurang kemiskinan ketimbang jadi konglo.
Lebih gampang kepeleset masuk neraka drpd naik ke surga”

[Lely @llfrd_]

Kakek-nenekku ngalamin zaman PKI yg g kebayang mencekamnya, alm kakek harus ikutan apasih ronda atau apa istilahnya pas jadi manten anyar.

Bapak-ibuku ngalamin zaman Ninja yg akupun udah adasih tp lupa. Bapak jg ronda ngejar2 Ninja.

Ealah bukannya berhenti malah lanjut part 3.

[Lely @llfrd_]

I just literally made a list of my struggles, how i’m still doing it despite those difficulties.

It’s never “cuma” for me, this act is never a simple act, it has complexity from intention to execution.

Cara komunikasi yg kontraproduktif, lebih sedih lg it was coming from nakes.

[Lely @llfrd_]

Sejak working closely sm orang legal berikut tentang compliance, aku makin menyadari wording matters, intention kalo wordingnya ga tepat ya bye bye.

Thus, jd lebih sensitif dg wording orang.

[Lely @llfrd_]

I just posted an IG story about my blood donation struggles, someone replied “cuma donor darah…” and then proceed to inform me about other form of blood donation.

I mean you could’ve just say “hey wanna try something new/have u ever heard about”

No need to belittle my effort

[Lely @llfrd_]

Izin ngetwit di sela2 kerja WFA ini, jujur i’d rather kerjaan lebih banyak dan/atau lebih sulit asalkan kerja rame2 + workmate dan atasan2 pada enak diajak kerjasama, mau dan bisa kerja alias orang2 pinter2 amat dahh seneng kalo kerja begini🙏

[Lely @llfrd_]

Apresiasi buat my ibu soalnya beliau gak ngomel2 ke om tante, pdhl blio sendiri yg prinsipnya “dari dalam kandungan sampe anak itu gede itu makanannya harus bergizi spy bisa kuat mikir, biar di sekolah ga ketinggalan, kasian kalo kesusahan di sekolah”.

[Lely @llfrd_]

Parenting is hard bruh coz wdym my baby cousin still doesn’t eat nutritious food.

Dari dia bocah ampe kelas 6 gini makannya tuh jajan mulu, gasuka ikan/ayam/sapi, sayur, dan buah.
Mentok mau makan telor tapi dibarengi ama mie instan.
Makan rendang tapi bumbunya doang.

[Lely @llfrd_]

It actually concerned me tiap liat dia makan kaya dekk bapak ibumu tuh duitnya ada mbok ya makan yg bergizi anjayy bener2 micin+gula nih anak ama bumbu rendang paling.

Sepupu2 yg dari om satunya jg seringnya makan nugget ama sosis. Ni keluarga knp gini amat yak (kluarga guweh).

[Lely @llfrd_]

Oh i also hate people who are only excited for ‘helping me meet partner’ bcz they want rewards in afterlife.

Bunch of egoistic maniac only think about their benefits while sacrificing other life.
I should’ve known better.

[Lely @llfrd_]

Me experimenting by saying “do you know single man available?”to fellow women and they said “No, not that i think they are good enough for you”.

While men just introduced me to any single man available, like almost no filter no consideration while blaming me “You are too picky”.

[Lely @llfrd_]

Fckng morons, how i can be too picky if there are no ‘choices’ in the first place?
And if i do have choice, i still can be as picky as i want.

We are all picky to choose the simplest thing like food, how can i bee too picky for choosing life partner?
The math ain’t mathing.

[Lely @llfrd_]

Me to my ibu:
“Dah ya gausah beli2 baju buat lebaran lagi”

Also me pas abis bukber liat2 baju di blok m:
“Aduh lucu2 bgttt”

(Berakhir dg gajadi beli offline tp nyari online, even worse soalnya kebuka algonya dg baju2 yg my selera guwehh😔)

[Lely @llfrd_]

Stop falling for a fine shyt if he’s not even look at you like at all. He’s all pretty and attractive and not into you. And that’s okay.

[Lely @llfrd_]

@renebearbae @txtdarionlshop Kaak nego tipis 1,5jt ya

[Lely @llfrd_]

@UcHiAjadEh @txtdarionlshop 1,5jt nego tipisss yaa kak