if i love you, i would never want you to be the same person you were when i first met you time after. keep your core values close and maintain your principles but know that my love doesn’t fear your growth, my love only wants to see you bloom into the fullest version of yourself.
There’s no such thing as lying to protect someone else.
We lie to protect ourselves.
We lie because we don’t want to have the conversation.
We lie because we fear losing something.
Secrets keep us sick, addicted, and dysfunctional.
The truth heals.
i used to think communication was a key until i realized comprehension is. you can communicate all u want with someone but if they don’t understand you or refuse to understand, communication is useless.
you deserve someone who can’t wait to talk to you, spend time with you, get to know u and fall in love with you. please stop settling for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant and indecisive. it’s so much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.