People need to understand that once you’ve gone through your darkest times alone, something inside you changes. You stop expecting people to show up, stop chasing connections and stop worrying so much about who chooses to stay or leave. When you’ve had to pick yourself up, wipe your own tears, figure things out without support and find the strength to keep going when nobody noticed you were struggling, you develop a different kind of independence. It’s not that you stop caring about people. You just stop feeling the need to hold on to anyone at the expense of your own peace. Once you’ve learned how to survive without people, you no longer fear losing them. You appreciate those who stay, but you no longer beg anyone to.
I’m not caught up in the “I like dark-skinned or light-skinned men” conversation. My type is whoever treats me right. Even if he’s an albino, as long as he gives me peace of mind, I’m sold. 🤭❤️🫶
I love when a relationship feels like a genuine friendship too. Of course, there's the kissing, cuddling and romance, but there's also the endless conversations, talking nonsense, laughing at the dumbest things and enjoying each other's company. That's the kind of love I want, where my partner is also my favourite person to do absolutely nothing with.
My mental health come before anything. I’m hangin up phones, declining calls, falling back from friendships and relationships. Whatever I gotta do. If it messes with my peace or got my mind feeling off, I’m out. I’m takin care of me first and I hope you on the same type of time.
My problem is I don’t want to date around or go through another talking stage. I just want my husband to find me so I never have to entertain another man again 😭
I’m at a point in life where I don’t have the time to keep outgrowing the same people. If we’ve had this conversation before, experienced this situation before, or addressed this behavior before, what exactly are we doing?
I’ve been set back alot in life by having a good heart, and putting other people needs I care about before my own, and now I feel like it’s finally time for me to win, do what I wanna do & need to do for myself, and walk into my season of abundance.
I’m such a hopeless romantic 😭. I want the house, the husband, the cars, the kids, bbq’s, Sunday family dinners, Baecations, family cations, romantic dates, holidays with friends and family. The whole nine literally 😩🥰