Just a friendly reminder: If a gay guy ever tells you he’s interested, a simple 'I’m straight, but thanks for the compliment' is all it takes. There’s really no need for an overreaction or any hostility. Let’s just keep things respectful and chill.
Yes, it follows the same logic as how minorities often feel around Europeans or white Americans, how the LGBTQIA+ community may feel around conservative spaces, and how Black and Brown individuals may feel around police officers, etc.
It is not the responsibility of those experiencing systemic oppression to assess the character or intentions of individuals, especially when they are navigating harm on a daily basis. Identifying yourself as an “ally” does not automatically establish trust or safety, it has to be demonstrated.
It’s like trying to find a harmless garden snake in a sea of poisonous ones, you’re not going to assume safety, you’re going to move with caution.
The responsibility lies with you to create an environment where people feel genuinely safe, seen and respected. 💡
Y’all out here mocking Kai Cenat for reading and looking up words.
Baby that’s what you’re supposed to do.
In a literary crisis— some of y’all need to take note.
@FKAY0NCE There’s literally a whole ass anime about this shit. Called Carole & Tuesday. People really out here atrophying their brains to slop. Getting so tired of people 😩
@notcapnamerica Mind you she didn't even "think" he was gay. She asked if he had a boyfriend OR a girlfriend. I guess the fact that she asked and didn't just assume he was straight just tore him apart 🤣.