Please be with someone who thinks everything special to you is a big deal. Your birthday ? A big deal. Fav food? Big deal. Fav flowers? A BIG deal. You in general ? A BIG deal
No, you need to stop expecting girls to perform your expected rejection script. It is very easy to avoid getting your feelings hurt if you're so fragile you expect coddling - leave girls/women alone. Your attention isn't the gift you want it to be.