Let the old story die. I know that it may feel comfortable to you. It may seem the “easier”option to go back to. However, the only way that you will ever stop doubting yourself and get exactly what you want is if you let it die. If you keep choosing to think in your favor and think from the new story instead. Just like how your mind is familiar with the old story, it can easily become familiar with the new one. All you have to do is stay consistent. Pick the new story every single time. The more that you stick to thinking in your favor, the less doubts you will have. The easier thinking in your favor will be and eventually, the less triggered you will feel and the old story won’t even be a thought in your mind anymore. You won’t give af anymore.
Your sp hates porn. Your sp gets the major ick from every woman who's isn't you. He never has wandering eyes. He revolves solely around you like you were the only one existing. 💌
Your Sp is yours now. They can only see you, there’s no 3p. You’re constantly on their mind. Hot and cold behaviour never existed. You’re their dream person. You’re always chosen and prioritised.
If you want to change your SPs behavior then you have to change how you think of him. Your SP can only show up based on how you think that he will. Whatever you think that he is saying, thinking, or doing is exactly what he will. Your SP isn’t separate from you.
So for example, if you want your SP to be more loving and affectionate towards you then you need to start thinking of him as that way. (Ex. “SP (their name) is so loving & affectionate towards me. He’s so clingy. They constantly want to be near me.”). If doubts pop up or they do something unfavorable then choose to think in your favor. You have to stay persistent. The more that you continue to think of them favorably, they will show up that way consistently. Your consistency = their consistency.
Your SP is already fully-conformed. They are the best version of themselves. You’re not waiting for them because they are already showing up exactly how you want them to. They are doing everything that you affirmed for.
If you want your SP to show up a certain way, start only seeing them that way. Even if you don’t see visible movement, trust me, they’re constantly think about you. Keep persisting and they’ll surely show up exactly how you want them to be
Remember your SP only has eyes for you. They’re only attracted, in love, and only want to be with you. They get the ick from anyone who isn’t you, they don’t even entertain the thought or idea of anyone else besides you. You’re all they want and all they ever think about.
I don’t care if your SP said they hate you or if there’s a 3P. IT DOES NOT MATTER.
Your Sp IS STILL YOURS. The version of your SP that wants you, chooses you, and loves being with you is still available. Stop identifying with the version you don’t want and start persisting in the version you do!!
signs your sp is thinking about you:
- random thoughts about them
- hot flashes, goosebumps
- feeling their energy
- dreaming of them
- hearing their voice
No contact? Doesn’t even exist. Your SP is getting every single affirmation. You’re never separated from them even if it may physically appear/seem that way in the moment. The law is always working in your favor. They are already yours.
trust me, the reason why you're obsessively thinking about your SP is because they are thinking about you. 24/7. thought transmission is REAL! thoughts are "movement" too. stop seeing texts & calls as the only way to communicate.
we are dating each other now
everyone & everything keeps up together always
our love and relationship is protected
we are together forever romantically
before my sp and I had our first date, before I had even truly understood the law the way I do now, I had scripted about all the things I deserved, how amazing I knew I was, how perfectly I viewed a true healthy unconditional type of love & all the ways I knew I wanted to be treated.
at the time, I had just out of a near 10 year relationship, it was honestly a true reflection of my shitty self concept, & how I viewed myself after years of trauma before knowing what I know now. the way I kept expecting the worst, the way I didn’t think I deserved better. & it bugged me, the way I knew about manifestation since I was in middle school, but the things I really wanted I couldn’t seem to attain. and didn’t recognize how I kept selecting something unfavorable over and over. I was truly at my lowest in all forms & I won’t even get into that, story for another day.
but one day, after many days of yearning for the feeling of being valued, respected, loved. and chosen, I decided I did deserve better. I shifted from wanting it, not knowing i was worthy and valuable enough to experience the love most little girls grow up dreaming of, to simply deciding now I do and this is what that looks like.
it was like a light bulb moment. one second I was scared, doubtful, pessimistic and the next I was determined and convicted that what I wanted wasn’t crazy, that it truly was available to me and that it always was, I was just keeping it away from me. I rampaged in my journal, of my perfect life, my perfect self concept, my perfect relationship, down to the finest details. I used my hurt and my anger & my sorrow and I turned it into conviction and clarity, and I put it on paper. mind you- this was my law of attraction, crystals in the moon water phase. but I didn’t do any of that this time.
I had a clear view of exactly how I wanted things to change & I embodied it while I journaled. I was daydreaming and journaling like a giggly silly lil love sick girl. by the end of my entry I felt so good. I sat back, smiled & laughed to myself. never thought of the journal entry again after closing the book.
a few days later, my current boyfriend appeared in my life. everything on my list. to a tee. reflecting only my new self concept and the things I wrote down that I desired. it turns out that I scripted how I’d meet his family, how we’d all get along, how I’d feel loved, safe, secure, prioritized, seen & unconditionally loved by my man and equally as accepted by his family.
maybe three weeks later, we had our first date & I ended up meeting his family. everything played out so perfectly I literally had a moment during the night like “omg I wrote all of this down the other week” and just stunned at the results being so instant. after the most amazing time, I went straight back to my journal & wrote under that entry “manifestation is fucking real.”
turns out, we made long distance work, now we live together, and every day our connection strengthens and grows.
I say all of this to say that 1. manifestation is instant & it doesn’t matter where you’re starting from. 2. a lot of the times when we consciously manifest, we look, we wonder, we ask questions about its arrival, but 3 the most important note of all, we are always manifesting even when we aren’t aware of it. and when you select a new identity, the world has to reflect it. it doesn’t matter what cycle you’ve been in or for how long. the second that you choose, it. is. done. & circumstances don’t matter, I’ve manifested so many sps despite circumstances by simply changing my thoughts and the way I view them and the situation.and you can too!!