Il a grave raison.
Soyons plus attentifs, plus à l’écoute, plus attentionnés. Faites des surprises, emmenez-les en week-end, peu importe.
Faites-leur à manger de temps en temps, prenez le temps de comprendre ce qu’elles aiment, ce qui les touche, ce qui les rend heureuses.
Nous les hommes on se laisse trop parfois vivre, on tombe parfois dans la routine, mais elles méritent de vrais efforts, de la présence, de la considération et de l’amour dans les actes, pas seulement dans les mots.
Prenez soin d'elles, vraiment.
My boyfriend noticed I’d been quiet for a few days and didn’t pressure me to explain. He just started doing small things. He charged my phone when it was low. Filled my water bottle before bed. Sent me “I’m here” texts instead of “what’s wrong” texts. One night, I finally broke down and told him everything I’d been holding in, and he didn’t interrupt me once. He didn’t try to fix it. He didn’t make it about himself. He just held my hand and listened.
A week later, nothing had changed between us. He didn’t treat me like I was fragile. He didn’t bring it up to use against me. He just loved me the same, steady and normal.
That’s when I realized real love isn’t loud. It’s safe. It doesn’t rush you. It doesn’t punish you for being human. It stays.