Unfortunately, sometimes you have to be a little mean to make people realize you're not someone to be played with. Not everyone respects kindness, but they will respect boundaries.
women get shamed for sex. Liking it, not liking it, having too much or too little. Shamed for having kids, not having kids, having them too young, too old. There’s no setting where a woman is doing it “right.” There’s no version of a woman’s body that isn’t up for public debate.
As one girl from American TikTok said:
“Feminism doesn’t hate men: it hates abusers, aggressors, sexists, misogynists, femicide perpetrators, pedophiles, and freeloaders.
And good men aren’t bothered by this, because they hate them too.”