Kontrasepsi di Indonesia masih terlalu sering dibebankan ke perempuan!
Pil, suntik, IUD, implant, semuanya dibebankan ke perempuan.
Efek samping hormonal (gangguan mood, libido drop, kenaikan berat badan, risiko kanker payudara jangka panjang, bahkan infertilitas sementara setelah berhenti) sering dianggap “biasa aja, kan biar nggak hamil”.
Kalau emang mau fair, cowok juga harus mendapatkan beban kontrasepsi yang adil misalnya kondom konsisten (bukan cuma “kadang-kadang”), atau vasektomi.
So my husband, who is not on this app, wants to let you know that his 2 mins away gocar didn’t move for 10 minutes. He finally walked over, only to find the driver had stopped to eat nasi padang. Please send prayers for his awkward ride.
Please stop sending men long paragraphs after they hurt you. They don't care and nothing you say will guilt trip them into caring. Take your dignity and
go.