Being addressed with "my" is actually dangerous... "my girl," "my baby," "my love," "my darling," "my pretty girl," "my sweet girl"... MEEEE??? HELLO??? YES??? I'M YOURS???
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Make peace with the fact that people will always see their own version of you in their minds. You don't have to be responsible for who they think you are.