Every time you avoid something uncomfortable, your brain reinforces the idea that avoidance works. It literally strengthens the pathways that make hesitation, procrastination, or excuses automatic. And every time you do the hard thing even imperfectly your brain is building a new pathway: this is something I can do.
i don’t carry hate in my heart because i don’t wanna be ugly. i feel like being mean and hateful makes you physically unattractive. it start to show up in your face
My favorite line from Atomic Habits has been living in my head rent-free:
“It doesn’t make sense to continue wanting something if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don’t want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment.”
Semangat hari Senin 💪🏻
#SeoHyunJin: “Buat kalian yang masih 24, 27 tahun. Masih belum terlambat!!! Setidaknya sekarang, di tempat yang kalian mau, di jurusan yang kalian mau, pokoknya, diri kalian di ‘hari ini’ tuh diri kalian yang termuda!!! Semangat!”
I don't know who needs to hear this but someone recently told me "no amount of waiting will make you more brave, and no amount of worrying will make it more safe." And honestly I think about this everyday.
when hayao miyazaki said that true love was two people inspiring each other to live...recognizing just how hard living is, putting one foot in front of the other every day, how easy it is to lose our passion for it...... that's the real shit
Fui a ver Obsession y me parece una analogía perfecta de cómo los hombres literalmente te empujan a la “locura”, y luego te juzgan y te culpan por estar “loca”
Bu filmin Miyazaki filmleri kadar neden konuşulmadığını anlamadım o kadar ağladım ki izlerken yönetmen İsao takahata'nın anlatım tarzı beni çok etkiledi.Her şey çok derinden ve samimiydi, geçip giden hayatın içinde sanki bir aralik bulmuşsunuz ve dünyanın en huzurlu alanı gibi
The film Obsession perfectly portrays the “nice guy,” selfish, self-serving, creepy, and insecure. That’s what scared me most about the film. She begged him to end it all and he said “what’s so wrong with being with me?”
I watched this today, some dudes were sitting next to me and they were literally laughing and making fun of Nikki. This Bear guy is raping her, but yeah let's laugh about it...