older Hispanic kids always get it tougher. We learn to be the second parent. You feel like you’re not allowed to feel the slightest bit of weakness, nor show it to the younger ones. You always got to be on your shit. The slightest mistake & you feel like a disappointment.
every time my friends are going to meet my mom before hand I tell them that if they get their feelings easily hurt they will not like or get along with my mom Bc my mom is another breed y’all she will cap on you so hard she don’t care if you’ve never met LMAOOO
Let’s get OUT of the habit of telling people “Well that’s still your mom. That’s still your dad. That’s still your brother. That’s still your sister.” TOXIC IS TOXIC. Whether it’s family or NOT. You are allowed to walk away from people who CONSTANTLY hurt you. You are allowed to