being a doctor is genuinely turning out to be THE most heartbreaking, courageous yet stupid profession in India. You can get assaulted, murd3red, r@ped, falsely accused of negligence- and justice will not be delivered AT ALL.
@MsWWoo Never said i agree with them. If anything thats a disgusting lens and I have my own perception of life, which i live by. It's a thought and opinion, and social media is not real life.
‼️ i have been wondering about this and found that just the fact that a man irl speaks with you and initiates a friendship implies he likes looking at you, thinks you're pretty and the pipeline from there leads to having sexual thoughts. There almost always is an 'agenda' to it.
@Artxpooh Yes, most women are disturbed to hear that, if you are at all attractive, your "platonic" male friends are all having sexual thoughts about you.
people say that sex is the ultimate form of intimacy but i have observed that men often see the act of penetration as a power and authority move. Women and gay men are looked down upon in society largely for this reason, even men who get 'pegged' if we have to make that stretch
And it goes deeper than just sex. Take wizardliz for example— landon stalked her account, learnt to be her ideal man only to show her her place, to oversimplify the situation. The power dynamic is evident.
One can argue submission by choice would be submission in power, but it's in the optics. Given the context and discourse here, i believe it is a cope because men will either way choose to view themselves in a position of power, being giving, controlling of the psychology.
@mondalankit007 Its as basic as, if I'm approaching a friendship with a person, they should see me as a person too. I really don't understand why gender plays a role this big in all we do.
And, wife/girlfriend whoever, just at the right relationship with consent and well within boundaries.😭🤚🏻
@mondalankit007 We can and we often times give that benefit of the doubt to ALL our male friends. But there is a limit, especially when we realise that a man that doesn't control his impulse tries to control the woman he might just be friends with in the hope of wanting more.
@mondalankit007 We do understand this but imagine having to deal with people on a regular basis not knowing if they're separating their conscious thoughts from primal ones. I hope you can empathise with us on this.
the act of penetration has ALWAYS been seen as a power and authority move even thousands of years ago
ancient rome, ancient greece and ancient egypt were all 100% ok with you having gay sex as long as you were not the one getting “mounted”
@tepid_dog_water@xana37 I'm talking to you as a generalised audience and a gender representative, you are getting personal about my location/demographic.
Perhaps I hit a nerve and you're out of arguments! Men really are rabid dogs.
Fixed the analogy for you.
@JBaschel Then that sucks and maybe men need some growing up to do. Sexual desire need not turn us into an object free from our bodily autonomy. Men do not possess us or own us to be using cheap tactics and theatrics to simply sleep with us while also either hating us or dehumanising us.