Going numb on someone feels so good. When you’re numb to them you just don’t care. If they’re in your life, cool. If they’re not, also cool. But there’s NO desire nor hate for them at all. Truly at peace with it.
maturing is realizing that overplaying your role in people's life to prove your loyalty is only proving how less you value yourself. deal with people how they deal with you. rarely, barely, and accordingly.