@OluyideAustine@Temple_cfc Because you've already gotten a player before spinning 22 times. The chance deal is only for those who spun 22 times and didn't get any showtime card.
I'm very spontaneous. I could shower you with love persistently and unrelentingly if I really want you.
At the same time, in the snap of a finger, change my mind and ghost like you never existed.
@skeet_official@TheYorubaTimes Exactly! A lot of things doesn't seem right. I hope the authorities can investigate and reveal the real cause of death because that scene looks to odd to believe it's a suicide.
Some of you are blurring the lines between casual sex and relationship. If you can't do relationship, stick to casual/paid sex. If you can't do casual/paid sex, stick to relationship.
This idea that you are not loved enough or you are being cheated if your man is not paying for your time, is a very nonsense mentality that only happens here. Your man should not be paying for your transport to go and see him. You are going to see your man whom you claim to love. Many of you sre using relationship for street. To outsiders, you have a man, but you know you are there to get paid. You should be excited to go see him, and spending your money to do that should naturally give you satisfaction. You even want to be paid for your time there because in your head, he had sex with you and if he loves you, he should give you money. Are you selling the sex or not? Stick to one script.
It is called love making because two people in love are having sex. Anytime you monetize intimacy and companionship, the love is absent. You know this bevsuse you know you do not love him. NOBODY under heaven wants to be paid for sex by someone they love.
If you are billing your man for spending time with you, you are a terrible person. That one needs to be said because some of you are taking pride doing it and shaming those not doing it as "forming good girl." You are terrible. It is not a flex. Similarly you are are not different for not asking if you still expect to be paid. Love comes with responsibility. To love is to GIVE. You cannot be expecting to be paid for your time. Are you rendering a service?
This is why it is much better dealing with foreigners. Someone in love juat want to love and be loved. Spending time with you is the love in and of itself. She pays her transport/drive to your place, bring you gift and still chooses to share the bills because love is responsibility. The guy does same because it is a two way street. Every action is motivated by "I love him" not "make I chop him money." The ones doing casual sex just wants to fuck. They transport themselves to you and get enough fuck and everyone is happy. If you offer her money for any reason, she would take offence because you are now calling her what she isn't. You'll end up begging and explaining if you no want problem. The ones selling sex are upfront about it and will tell you they expect to be paid and how much. In all of these, there is consent and clarity. Nobody will claim they don't know what they are doing.
I do not have problem with casual or paid sex. I've said it countless times. In fact, I also encourage it because it is a societal necessity and it is also 100 times better than the monetized relationship you people are doing. I have a problem with blurring the lines between relationship and casual/paid sex. Dont bring paid sex mentality into relationship. Relationship is for lovers. You are there to give. It is the love you give that you deserve. People into paid sex can factor their transportation into their service charge. That does not apply in relationship. This thing is just common sense.
To wrap up, there are ladies in Nigeria who do casual sex with you because they like you and see you as mature, and you cannot offer them money because you both know it is disrespectful. You are simply helping each other satisfy urges and respecting what yourselves and what you share. I had to say this so they know we are not grouping everyone together. The difference between this and relationship is love and commitment. Note that, it is very okay if you want to be paid for your time, just be honest about it upfront, not keeping quiet and dying from unfulfilled entitlement. This does not apply to relationship. Relationship is for lovers and love comes with responsibility.