My boyfriend is probably wondering why i haven’t left him because he is broke . The other day he jokingly told me “if you ever find someone better , just go” i could tell he is insecure . Poor thing …what he doesn’t know is am not going anywhere , for some reason i just smell potential in him . He thinks i see his current balance , meanwhile am looking ahead , this one is bitcoin 2010 and am very patient .😭😂
Blueface says women should allow their man to keep cheating if they want to keep him, claiming a man will feel guilty and stop if she stays loyal, but if she cheats back he won’t feel bad and will keep cheating 💀🤔
“If I cheat and you cheat back, b*tch we even I don’t care. But If I cheat and you just sit there crying, eventually imma feel bad and change”
U can’t be un teachable around me. My life thrives off solutions and results I can’t live in a state of dysfunction and yeen finna bring yo dysfunction ova here bcs you refuse to listen
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that. Never get so carried away, pointing fingers that you forget you, too, have abscesses that need tending.
It was 8 PM on a Friday, and my partner was dead asleep on the living room sofa, still in his work clothes.
I was on FaceTime with a friend who was getting ready for a massive night out. She asked what my weekend plans were, and I flipped the camera to show him resting.
She sighed, doing her makeup. “Girl, doesn't it bother you? You’re young, it's Friday, and you're just watching a man sleep. You deserve the princess treatment. If he really wanted to take you out and show you off, he would.”
I looked at him. I looked at the dark circles under his eyes and the laptop still open on the coffee table.
What my friend didn’t see was that earlier that week, he had quietly taken over two of my biggest bills so I could afford to take a lower-paying job that I actually loved. He had been pulling 14-hour days for months, absorbing all the financial pressure so I could finally breathe.
I didn’t argue with her. I just calmly said,
“He is giving me the soft life. The soft life is me waking up without panic because he goes to war every single day. I’m not going to punish him for returning from that war exhausted.”
The line got quiet. I told her to have fun, hung up, and draped a blanket over him.
The internet has completely warped our idea of what love looks like. It has convinced women that "princess treatment" means endless aesthetic dates, constant entertainment, and a partner who operates with infinite energy.
But a man cannot simultaneously be in the trenches securing your absolute safety, and have the carefree energy of a guy with zero responsibilities.
I realized that night: The ultimate luxury isn't a man who takes you out to be seen. It’s a man who makes your life so incredibly secure that fiercely protecting his rest becomes your biggest priority.
If I’m having a tough conversation with you, please understand it’s because I value our relationship. I want you in my life and want you to tighten up so I can keep you in it. I’m not attacking you.