i watched a guy buy flowers today. When the cashier
asked, "Anniversary?" He smiled and said "No, she's just having a rough day." That's the kind of love I'm hoping to find.
in relationships women are reciprocators, not initiators. you lead, she follows. you put in effort, she returns it. you make her feel good, she mirrors it. that's the only way it works.
i rlly hate thinking “okay let me show less love” “let me not care soo much” i hate that feeling. i should never have to feel that way. my purest form is loving hard and caring hard. that’s just how i am
my therapist told me, "stop assuming people are mad at you. Stop attempting to read people's minds. stop trying to manage the thoughts and emotions of others. let people be in charge of themselves. if they have something to say to you they will and if they don't it is their responsibility not yours. overthinking kills happiness" and that hit me like a brick.
#Leos "I got you" is powerful as fuck, like they really got you. Through trial and error, break down and break through, sunshine and storm, #Leo is there.
I don't care for nonchalance. Point me to the lovers, the yearners, the poets, the men who send long paragraphs and the women who will send a long paragraph back, the triple texters, the gifters. Point me to the people who love love and are not afraid to show it.