lostsoulrambles

[PupAmp @PupAmp]

Roses are red.
Bruises are blue.
Have more kinky sex.
And get consent too.

[Eric Sprankle, PsyD @DrSprankle]

Porn doesn't come with a syllabus. It's not its job or its responsibility to be a sex educator. That's the job of schools and parents, so let's take responsibility and start educating our kids.

[Eric Sprankle, PsyD @DrSprankle]

You can empathize with someone without making it your responsibility to change how they feel.

[Justin Lehmiller @JustinLehmiller]

What's the link between porn use and sexual satisfaction? Research finds that porn is only linked to lower sexual satisfaction when the people using it feel morally conflicted about their behavior. https://t.co/qmdJa3kB6I

[Gigi Engle @GigiEngle]

Fun fact: sexually open and sex positive does not mean open for business. Nor does it mean someone is down to receive pictures of your dick, gross comments on their photos, or weird ass emails.

[Submissive Guide @subguide]

Sometimes what seems like surrender isn't surrender at all. It's about what's going on in our hearts. About seeing clearly the way life is and accepting it and being true to it, whatever the pain, because the pain of not being true to it is far, far greater. -- Nicholas Evans

[Epiphora @Epiphora]

Oh I'm sorry, does having sexual interests make someone MURDERABLE? Fuck OFF

[feminist next door @emrazz]

Women are four times more likely to raped by an acquaintance than by a stranger. We know them, and you do too.

[Gigi Engle @GigiEngle]

Women always ask me what they need to do to win a partner - and what I say is: BE YOURSELF with no shame. No bullshit. Fuck it.

[Alyssa Leader @alittleleader]

Y’ALL.

I’m at the doctor and when I got on the scale the nurse said, “Are you okay with knowing the number on the scale or do you prefer not to?”

!!!!!!!

Every. Single. Medical. Professional. Should. Do. This.

[lostsoulrambles @lostsoulrambles]

Some people on Fetlife kill me...

[Eric Sprankle, PsyD @DrSprankle]

Make it a weekend goal to learn the difference between:
• seeing someone nude & sexualizing someone’s nudity
• fantasizing about a sexual act & consenting to a sexual act
• someone existing & believing someone exists solely for your pleasure

[Justin Lehmiller @JustinLehmiller]

Gay blood bans aren't based in modern science and they create unnecessary hurdles to maintaining a sustainable blood supply. https://t.co/A5AnuOjl27 #LGBT #LGBTQ

[Ashley Manta (like Santa) @TheCannasexual]

People who are upset about a post suggesting that checking in before emotionally unloading on someone is a considerate thing to do have never had multiple people reach out and share unprompted vivid trauma stories in the same week and it shows.

[Aaron 🍋🪴🌱 @AaronLinguini]

Hot piece of advice given the thread that’s circulating about asking permission before emotionally dumping on friends:

If your friend acts like they’re entitled to you, dismisses your boundaries, or treats you like a bad friend for having boundaries— they’re a bad friend.

[Submissive Guide @subguide]

"Submission without domination is when you keep doing what he wants even after he keeps insisting he doesn't want it. Domination without submission is when he keeps telling you to do something and you keep telling him to f*ck off." -Linda

[Captain Jacquard 🏳️‍⚧️🇵🇸 @sextoyspolitics]

Having healthy personal boundaries is the opposite of selfishness and narcissism. And calling it those things is how abusive relationships happen.

If you don't take care of yourself, you'll reach a point where you can no longer take care of anyone else either.