people who consume bl/gl but still view queer relationships through a heterosexual lens, reducing them to "top/bottom" stereotypes and reinforcing heteronormativity will always be weird to me
LATTEKIM CNX MOMENTS
#LatteKimVlogInCNXV2
"here for you"
"what?"
"flowers for you to sniff"
my lover boy latte 😭😭😭 the way he is so nonchalant abt it. like yes he went to the toilet but the fact that he got the flowers for kim cause it suited him means he remembered kim as he saw the flowers and im gonna cry
𓍯𓂃𓏧♡ Relationship Goals 𓍯𓂃𓏧♡
I don't think a healthy relationship is about finding someone who fits you perfectly. Sometimes it's about finding someone who's willing to meet you halfway, and that's something I've always appreciated about #LatteKim.
They're different in ways that have genuinely frustrated each other, and they've been honest about that. But they've also shown a willingness to listen, communicate, and learn how the other person works.
I keep thinking about this vulnerable conversation from DMD Friendship. They were approaching the final partner selection, and Latte asked Kim directly if he was going to choose him.
🐶: “I want you to choose me, though. I think you're really good with me... Thank you for working together. Even when there were things I didn't know or wasn't good at yet, you always stayed calm, helped me, and told me when I did something wrong.”
And then Kim was honest about something that wasn't quite as pretty.
🦖: “I have to admit that I got upset sometimes. I got upset, overthought things, and... I didn't tell you directly.”
He wondered whether their difficulties meant they hadn't tried hard enough, weren't in sync, or maybe just weren't right for each other. And this is the part I keep coming back to:
🦖 “Someday, I think we can both find the middle ground... Do you think the same as I do?”
And Latte's response was soo simple:
🐶: “Yes, I think so... About everything you were worried about, I kind of understand. Maybe I don't think about things deeply enough, but if talking to me makes you feel more relieved, I'm always here to talk.”
That's the part I LOVE!!! Kim didn't tell Tte, “You need to change.” He said, essentially, “We're different. Can we meet somewhere in the middle?”
And Latte didn't say, “You're overthinking.” He said, “I may not experience things the way you do, but if talking helps you, talk to me.”
That's such a small thing, but to me, that's what healthy communication actually looks like. Not never getting frustrated. Not understanding each other perfectly. Not being naturally compatible in every way.
It's being able to say, “This hurt me.” “This is how I am.” “This is how you are.” And then asking, “Where can we meet?”
And even before knowing whether Kim would choose him, Latte still told him:
🐶 “Even if you don't choose me, I still think you're perfect to be my partner.”
I don't know. 🥹 There's something very tender about choosing to understand someone without demanding that they become more like you. Maybe that's part of what makes LatteKim so compelling to me. They don't always seem to speak the same emotional language.. but they keep trying to learn each other's. 🐶🦖
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I love them so much!✨
‧🐶 ₊˚ ☁️⋅♡𓂃 ࣪ #LatteKim #LatteTNC #kkim_pst #ลาเต้คิม ִֶָ☾.⋆𐙚₊🦖 ♡
who said i’m some kind of womanizer *starts mewing* the real me is actually super soft and adorable
HE’S MAKING FUN OF HIS STRAIGHT ALLEGATIONS AND IT’S SO FUNNY
DUANG GO ROUND DAY1
#DuangConcertDay1#ottoottoo
can people finally stop bringing up his previous pairing and move on? he's clearly so worried about how his new partner will be received because there's always so much toxicity regarding a partner switch. can we for once have the actor's best interest in mind and be kind?
โอมขอขอบคุณสำหรับทุกข้อความและความหวังดีจากทุกคนนะครับ ในเรื่องการเปิดตัวพาร์ทเนอร์ใหม่อย่างเป็นทางการของโอม เดิมทีพวกเราได้มีความตั้งใจไว้ว่าจะทำการเปิดตัวในวันบวงสรวงหรือวันที่ 20 สิงหาคมนี้ เนื่องจากพวกเราต้องการมั่นใจว่าทุกสิ่งทุกอย่างอยู่ในความพร้อมมากที่สุด อย่างไรก็ตาม หลังจากที่ได้รับฟังความคิดเห็นจากทุกคนแล้ว พวกเราไม่ได้นิ่งนอนใจและจะนำเรื่องนี้กลับไปปรึกษาและหาทางออกที่ดีที่สุดสำหรับทุกคนครับ คงบอกได้เพียงว่า โอมจะพยายามอย่างสุดความสามารถเพื่อความสบายใจของทุกคนนะครับ หากสามารถเลื่อนมาประกาศก่อนวันบวงสรวงได้ ทางเราจะรีบทำการประกาศในเร็ววันครับ ขอบคุณครับ
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I would like to thank you for all the messages and well wishes. Regarding the official announcement of my new partner, we had originally planned to make the announcement on the worship ceremony day, August 20th, as we wanted to make sure that everything would be as ready as possible. However, after seeing some feedbacks, we do not remain neglecting, and we will bring this matter to discussion and find the best solution for everyone. All I can say now is that I will do my absolute best to ensure everyone feels better. If we are able to rearrange the announcement, we will make the announcement as soon as possible. Thank you for understanding.
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STOPPP LATTEKIM IS SO MARRIED WHAT THE FAWKK WDYMM HE SAT NEAR PINK POWER TO BE LATTE's PERSONAL FAN 😭😭😭😭😭😭☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️ IM CRYINGGGGGG😭😭
LatteKimTMilK SPORTS DAY
#DMDSPORTDAY2026
actually i think this person has a point. not that it's inherently wrong for these guys to do a feminine dance, but that they split up masculine/feminine dances based on top/bottom assignments.
challenging gender stereotypes would be letting the tops do this kind of dance too.
I'm not against femininity in males/men but dmd's push in heteronormative gender stereotype.....
(And I'm the one called homophobıc for calling this out before)