loveNbullets

If everyone in the world Could give me what I wanted I wouldn't want for more than I have... 🌚🌪

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

That aint this & this aint that.

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

What happens if I stop fighting every feeling & just let it tell me what it came here to say?
🤔

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

Integration over accumulation.
Not more.
Aligned.
Not bigger.
Truer.
Not proving.
Becoming.
🤌🏾

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

Hardest part is I can’t think my way out of this. I have to be present & allow the experience to just be what it’s going to be….
-Surrender😩🤌🏾

[Soph @sooaappyy__]

i don’t have a type but i do have a very concerning pattern

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

The correlation between mediocrity & arrogance is AMAZING when you really think about it 🤔
-Subjectively Speaking

[The real is back🤷🏾‍♀️. @ItsMimaMonopoly]

People gon end up with who they deserve. And sometimes, that ain’t you, cause what they deserve is a ain’t shit bitch that’s gon suit them better.

[kat @yslnadi]

God listening to me complain about somebody he already removed from my life but i let them back

[𝑁𝑎𝑑𝑖. @luvblessingz]

“you’re so hard to please” bro im literally impressed by trees and moving water

[Your Emotional Healing Coach @AfsaRosette]

If you’re someone who likes depth you’re more prone to attracting avoidants. They'll bring intellect & at first it'll feel like you're compatible. Until you realise you're engaging with a mind but the heart is in lockdown. Remember one sees you. The other just studies you.

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

At some point:
you have to become part of the life you’re building too.
Not just the caretaker of it.
🧠

[Raymonte @BDTRELILBROTHER]

Bitches hate loud but them mirrors hate harder ! Can’t outrun ugly when the reflection the author🤷‍♂️

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

Not new to indifference the way I handle it WILL BE though….
Sayonara babe ✌🏾😏

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

Come quick there’s humans 45+ chasing spaces of 20yr olds it’s a sight to see 😬🫠

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

The way we define, perform, & assign meaning to trust is heavily shaped by society, culture, family systems, religion, relationships, & personal experience. Different cultures, communities, & even households teach completely different expectations….

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

This weeks topic is TRUST:
🙆🏾‍♀️
Trust sits in this interesting space between biology, psychology, & social construction.

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

I’m investing in the next version of my life…..
🤌🏾😩

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

They called my sisters name @ her college graduation & handed her that degree, she turned 2 us in da crowd hit her shit, & threw up gang signs 😭😩 That moment really solidified how beautiful duality of life is. Rooted in where we come from but still accomplishing shit
🤌🏾

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

Idk, maybe mature trust isn’t:

“I know you won’t hurt me.”

Maybe it’s:

“I know I can observe reality clearly, respond appropriately, & protect myself if you do.”

That makes trust less blind & more grounded.

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

I also think trust is layered:
You can trust intentions & not emotional maturity. Trust love & not consistency. Trust someone wont intentionally hurt you while also recognizing they can. Trust yourself to survive disappointment more than you trust others never to disappoint you.

[loveNbullets @love_nbullets]

Your brain starts asking: Why would I hand someone power they could misuse? Why should I emotionally invest before outcomes are proven? Why gamble w/attachment?” & those questions are actually reasonable.