Being a girl is wanting to save money but also wanting your hair done, nails done, gym membership, skincare, cute outfits, and a little treat every day 😭
I cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. You are your biggest advocate. No one else can read your mind or feel what you feel.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
Keep things to a minimum with people this year. Dont over share your business! Whatever you’re going through, pray about it!! & any plans you make, stick to them, even if that means isolating.
Maturing is realizing that, sometimes, as an adult, you have to decide “This is the last time these people are going to make me feel this way,” and stand by it. Whether it’s family, a relationship, or a friendship.
Breakups are ok. Losing friends is ok. Moving on is ok. Healing is ok. Saying no is ok. Being alone is ok. What is NOT ok is staying somewhere where u don't feel happy, valued, loved or appreciated.
girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone
I peep EVERYTHING. How you talk to me, how you show up, how you move when things aren’t convenient. I don’t force understanding, I don’t beg adults to act grown, I just adjust. I match effort with effort, energy with energy. My access to you will look like how you show up for me.