You will sometimes have to encourage yourself when the results are disappointing. Remind yourself why you started, review how far you have come, and decide what practical step you can take next.
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. Likes And eventually, the bill comes due.