Expecting sex because you paid for dinner is coercion. It’s part of rape culture. Hope that helps. If your generosity comes with a sexual invoice, you weren’t being romantic ... you were trying to purchase access to someone’s body.
a lot of people’s sense of self now is built on a foundation of envy, which is the decay from suppressing your desires. so many look to justify this avoidance of self by ascribing morality to their failures; then the misery compounds bc its rewarded with company on social media
There is so much abundance. Beautiful ppl to encounter. Beautiful places to go. Beautiful experiences waiting to find you. Money to be made. Love to be held by. Doors you do not even know exist yet. Be mindful of consuming content rooted in scarcity, disappointment + limitation.
Huwa mnatukana watu sensitive things with no remorse & empathy that bring them down mentally alafu the moment mnaingia casket we're told to be the bigger persons & not spin it back
@carltonkitheka1 Real 🤣 that Delo guy who's in prison used to bully the fuck out of women on here saizi najua ni yeye na kunguni uko remand 🤣🤣🤣 DESERVED!!
I’m not a good person at all. Infact, I have the capability to be very bad given the right circumstances I just don’t feed into it too frequently. But one thing I am and will forever be, is kind. Self awareness is key, always.
@KatheuNzyimi It's mostly women always doing it btw 😂 and it doesnt take a genius to know its all rooted in jealousy. She's what they deem perfect in every way,.pretty, has a good life...and they put her on an impossible pedestal...ni wivu tu aki 🤣
That's why you must expand your capacity to contain and nurture that blessing you are asking for as you work towards it. La sivyo, that [job, money, home, partner] will come and your mind will see this unfamiliar but very good thing as dangerous, and you WILL self sabotage
To be put on a pedestal is to be dehumanized because it eventually strips you off the grace & patience humans need when they make mistakes, when YOU make mistakes.