“Forget the dates and dinners. Invest in my business, take the trash out, help clean up, and help me build. That’s the kind of love and support I’m looking for.” Support my vision, help lighten my load, and let’s create something together.” 💯✨
I can be the most understanding person, but I am not blind. Your repeated toxic behaviour will slowly drain my energy. Once I reach my limit, don't expect the same patience and understanding I once gave so freely. When I'm done. I'm done for real
I struggle with forgiveness, for real. I’ll let things slide and act cool for a while, but then my mind starts replaying everything. Before I know it, I’m mad all over again and don’t even wanna be around you. It hurts, ‘cause I’m the type to ride hard for the people I love. My loyalty runs deep, sometimes too deep. But it’s crazy how your own thoughts can keep you stuck, replaying the pain instead of releasing it. And the whole time, I’m just sitting there thinking, “Why would you even do me like that?
I'm literally not the same girl I used to be. I'm a grown woman now. I try my best to avoid things that will take me back to the old me. I handle situations very differently now. & most importantly I'm still working on myself. Letting people feel like they've "won" has helped me the most. I'm literally changing into a mature adult woman & I thank God for the growth♡♡
We probably could have came back from the issue we had, but it was the way you moved afterwards that let me know why I couldn’t have you back around me. 💯
Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person. The hardest part isn't just their betrayal, it's the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts.
DON’T PLAY WITH GOD. He can flip your whole story overnight. One moment you’re counted out, the next you’re standing in rooms you never qualified for. Destiny isn’t fragile when God is involved. It’s one instruction away from changing everything.
Nobody really talks about how bad it hurts forgiving yourself for being genuine with people who were fake the whole time. It isn’t even the betrayal that hits the hardest, it’s knowing your gut warned you and you still chose to see the good in them. You gave real energy to someone who was only playing a role. That’s the part that stings. The loss doesn’t hurt as much as realizing you trusted the image they sold you. But it’s straight… lesson learned. From now on, I’m listening to my gut every time. 📌💯
Tems said, "your love is not my lifeline, your love is not my home. returning you, you're not mine, to me, you don't belong, i'm better on my own, you're better when you're gone..." THIS IS R&B OMG �