whenever ppl post these videos like “haha look how stupid poly is!” and i watch the video and the video is saying shit like “be honest and actually talk to your person about your feelings to build a strong healthy and loving connection” and it’s like…ok.
Maybe because I am fatherless but I can never understand these questions, a man tells you what to do?????? And you listen???? How do you even keep a straight face in such a situation? I would laugh myself to death because you can’t be seriously telling me what to do with my life.
the way y’all turned on that woman by basically saying or implying she’s “asking for it” (it being DMs to her husband) by posting her & her man interacting is a really great example of how monogamy & slut-shaming go hand in hand. shit has ppl in a blender lmao
funny that when men have a problem with other men hitting on their gf/wife they pretty reliably blame her for attracting/not discouraging the attention& when women have a problem with it, we still pretty reliably are arguing with other women about it. monogamy is a woman’s burden
so ready for monogamy to go. women shoulder literally all the burden for maintaining it- they’re expected to be faithful themselves (in ways/even when their partners aren’t), be “good enough” to prevent their partner from straying AND make sure nobody else’s man cheats either