I once got a text from a guy saying that he enjoyed our date but didn’t think we should see each other again and I replied with ‘No problem, thanks for letting me know’.
He responded again 20 minutes later saying ‘I thought you might like to know why’ and I didn’t respond. He then sent me a three paragraph long message saying that I’m his dream girl but he didn’t like that I didn’t offer to split the check and that he was going to pay but he felt like I just expected him to pay. I still didn’t reply, I wasn’t interested in playing this game.
Over the next few days he sent multiple messages saying he’d be happy to give me another chance and that he really thought we connected. Again, I never replied.
The date was fine, I would have likely gone on another, but trying to keep women insecure to see if they anxiously attach to you is a fools game that I wasn’t interested in playing.
I hope he’s since learned that women who know how much value they bring aren’t going to grovel and apologize for expecting value to be returned.
For those who are unaware
PMX is actually
PROFESSOR Dato Seri Dr Anwar Ibrahim.. (Havard ,Stanford ,Oxford - humbly he doesn’t expose it.)
MCKK-UM -UKM -King Saud Univ -Int Univ Islamabad - OXFORD University- HAVARD University- John Hopkins University - Georgetown Univ
Washington - Univ Al Azhar- Stanford Univ & top 10 of 500 most influential muslim leaders.
Pendidikan Sekolah Menengah di Malay College Kuala Kangsar ( MCKK ).
“First rule of relationships in maturity is no one is perfect…
You must give up on ever being understood fully. No one will ever fully understand you… You will always be alone… It is sign your life is normal.”
@BTS_twt Namjoon shared a clip of a talk by author Alain de Botton
Me: …..
My husband:
“Nanti kita ada anak, kalau dia nangis or tantrum nak pergi tadika pagi-pagi, abang akan cakap kalau dia behave for 5 days, kita akan bagi reward tak payah pergi tadika for 2 days.”
Me after few seconds, baru terfikir. YELAH DAH 2 HARI TU WEEKEND 😩
“pergi mampos” in sopan way 😭:
1. “ kalau penat bernafas, jangan paksa”
2. “tarik nafas, jangan hembus”
3. “kalau bernafas dah comel macam ni, kalau berhenti mesti lagi comel”
4. Kalau dunia ni terlalu berat untuk awak, rehat je lama-lama.