The "not so great" comes in 2 parts. The first and most obvious is that watching someone's life updates through a screen creates the illusion of connection where we feel "up-to-date" on that persons life, but ultimately it's a 1-way parasocial relationship.
My favorite line from Atomic Habits has been living in my head rent-free:
“It doesn’t make sense to continue wanting something if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don’t want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment.”
I don't know who needs to hear this but someone recently told me "no amount of waiting will make you more brave, and no amount of worrying will make it more safe." And honestly I think about this everyday.
i have no desire to be rich so i can buy a rolex or a lamborghini.
i want to be rich so i can control my time and go to the gym at 3pm on a monday.
sit at a cafe and relax for an hour on a rainy afternoon.
so i can cook meals at home with fresh ingredients.
spend on my family and friends without worrying about a budget.
that's my idea of a rich life, not the fake consumerist idea shoved down my throat.
Underrated life advice: Become generous with your assumptions. Assume they were tired, not rude. Overwhelmed, not careless. Preoccupied, not distant. This doesn’t mean tolerate disrespect. It means stop turning every small moment into a personal attack. Grace makes life lighter.
so the op is a fangirl and she said “noona neomu yeoppo” to wonyoung, wy corrected it with “unnie” cuz the op is a girl
and then the fanboy started singing “noona neomu yeoppo” by shinee and wonyoung just play with it by turning around, she is so funny🤣