Let’s do a practical test.
Ask a Nigerian Christian who desires children if they know there are chances of having a disabled child as long as they desire being parents.
First they will God forbid it.
Secondly, they will demonize a disabled child and tell you nothing demonic can happen to them since “we are children of God and all perfect gifts come from God”
Lastly, they’ll ask you why you should think it should be their portion to birth one.
These are the set of Christians you think would treat a disabled child with empathy?
How many Christians have openly told you they aborted a fetus according to the doctor’s advice? Or you think people don’t do it?
No, she went viral over an outfit in 2024. The convo about her was regarding her style as a WAG. She had been attending games prior and was barely known but her status catapulted after she wore an outfit she styled herself - luck. His team didn’t “prop” her into fame.
The person who said she won’t keep a prenatally diagnosed DS baby is a lost course and must be disciplined by the church. But if I tell you say you go born DS, you go first shout Godforbid and actually pray against it😂😂😂.
Do you know your spouse can become disabled at any point?
However, I would not intentionally choose a disabled spouse.
Happenstance and intentionally selecting a disabled person are two different scenarios.
It’s not you people’s fault, it’s because it’s being talked about here, you think anybody will come and ask for your opinion or permission before they remove a fetus with DS? Lol.
You that will complain to your child’s teacher if his seat is next to a kid with DS in class, you that won’t invite the kid with DS to your child’s birthday party so they don’t make your guests uncomfortable, you that’ll get irritated in a fast food restaurant or church if a kid with DS walks in with their parent and they sit next to you, it is here you can be grandstanding and posturing.
People are deadbeating able bodied kids easily, it is now special needs kids they won’t deadbeat?
Be yarning dust there because no be you gaz face the struggle of dealing with the ability to care (emotionally, financially), the concerns about the child’s quality of life, the bullying and social exclusion in an intolerant and discriminatory environment, long term family impacts and future of the kid if anything happens to the primary caregivers. Online lo wa.
I’m sorry, but if an X-ray were to reveal any disability in my fetus, I would terminate the pregnancy immediately and without hesitation.
Why bring an innocent child to suffer???
Men that abandon able children are the ones that won’t abandon disabled children abi,go and see how disabled are left for the mother alone to fend for them before you start chatting rubbish
About this abortion issue for fetuses with Down syndrome or pathological defects. I feel Nigerians are very performative and selective moralists.
As far as e no affect them, they will ALWAYS take the moral high ground.
Not really Tolani doesn’t even post, rarely posts period. Bukayo also does make really feature her in the posts. Jola was specifically talking about women who centre their platform around their men. You guys want to hear what you want to hear