talking to a sub i don’t really play with much anymore about life and how i wasn’t having the best day when he did this.
subs who are serving… take notes.
sometimes it doesn’t take much to make a domme’s day.
the smallest gestures can mean more than the biggest drains. a thoughtful send, a kind message, checking in, paying attention.
anyone can throw money at a woman.
the real exchange is understanding what she needs in that moment and acting on it.
intention is powerful.
I used to have a sub who was genuinely one of the best. He sacrificed thousands, showered me with designer gifts and actually understood what serving properly meant. Then he turned into a community slut, got married and his service completely fell off.
Now he slides into my DMs offering petty change for a video call like I’m supposed to be impressed. I decline every single time. I don’t do crumbs. I don’t accept zero sacrifice just so someone can get off. He used to serve me the right way and he doesn’t get to downgrade me to quick, low-effort access.
I’m a firm believer in kissing places that are usually left untouched during sex. Kissing your hips and ribs. Your spine and wrist. I want to indulge in every part of you.