Before you pass away, Remove your kids as direct beneficiaries of your assets. Then place all your assets in a revocable trust and name your kids as the beneficiary of the trust. This allows them to by pass the lengthy probate process and gain immediate access to the assets.
@achayegodfrey You joke alot. There is alot of thought process in each of those structures. One attracts attention while one uses minimalist design yet stands out
@DeeSandy20 From your write-up, there is an attachment. She was probably recommended or you have a close connection. That one should first be given like two weeks suspe to jolt her back to senses.
@dekim_Kalvino I once sat at a reception for an hour and simply walked away after I got tired. No sooner had I made 500 metres than they called me . I simply told them it was my time alloted. I just walked away.