One thing I can't stand is being ignored. If you're busy, just say so. If you're not in the mood to talk, just say so. If you're done with me, just say SO. Just COMMUNICATE
I hate being the type to cry when they’re overwhelmed and not because I hate crying, but because of how I get treated for it. at one point I started to say that it makes communication more difficult but I realized me crying because I’m overwhelmed IS me communicating.
i’d much rather get a simple “i’m busy right now, but i love you. i’ll text you when i’m free” than go hours without a reply, wondering what’s going on. reassurance and communication really do make all the difference.