lucy

yorkshire gal

[lucy @lucykins]

wanna bring back death penalty in the UK for paedos i said what i fucking said🖕🏼
#CrimeAndPunishment #CatchingPaedophiles #channel4

[A 🇦🇪 @tutututuulip]

You cannot build a healthy relationship with someone who makes you feel guilty every time you express that they hurt you

[lucy @lucykins]

sorry, you’re telling me the teenage kid from war of the worlds is fiona gallaghers boyfriend?!

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

i think the highest form of love is consideration. if someone genuinely cares about u, they'll think about how their actions affect u

[Daniela Galvis @danielagalviis]

Algún día otra mujer tendrá el privilegio de estar toda la vida junto al hombre que yo más amé.

Y ella recibirá, sin rogar, todo el amor que yo exigí a gritos.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

being kept around, but not fully chosen, has to be the most draining and confusing thing ever.

[𝓐 ⭑ @ayojoestar]

NO ONE TALKS ABOUT THE FUCKING RAGE THAT COMES WHEN YOU REALIZE HOW MUCH OF YOUR LIFE WAS SPENT MANAGING OTHER PEOPLE'S EMOTIONS WHILE NO ONE EVER GAVE A FUCK ABOUT YOURS.

[• @exloversX]

a friend told me “arguments only separates those who wanted to leave, it’s never a reason to leave but it’s always an excuse for someone who already wanted to leave”

oh, I understand it now.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

Someone said “being kept around but not fully chosen has to be the most draining & confusing thing ever” and wow I couldn’t agree more.

[ً @BALUCIAGA]

don't ask me my thoughts on anyone evil if you don't like people wishing death on others bc my answer will always be: i hope they die

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

normalize saying “i need more time before i’m comfortable with that” without it being a whole conversation.
women are not withholding when they set the pace. they’re just refusing to let urgency override instinct.
your body keeps score. if something feels off, that feeling is data. not drama.
intimacy isn’t owed. not after a date, not after months, not after anything. comfort is the entry point, not a bonus.

[Kate 🪬🤍🇺🇸 @ImSpeaking13]

If a woman tells a man that they feel abused, and that man doesn’t stop the first time they say it…that man knows exactly what he is fucking doing.

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

Imagine knowing they're destroying your mind, your peace, and your entire sense of self. You don't even want them anymore, but you still can't let go.

That's how deep a trauma bond hooks into you. It forces you to choose familiar pain over unfamiliar peace.

[zayden @pemilo123]

"you don't seem autistic" stick me in a group situation and watch for like 4 minutes

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

The fact that you would rather completely disconnect from the woman you claim to love than face the reality of your actions reveals so much about your character and limitations. It's not just that you hurt her. It's the fact you continue to choose your own emotional comfort over acknowledging the amount of damage you've caused. It's a second betrayal on top of the original damage

[raixdaily🦋 @raixdaily]

Blaming someone's reaction instead of your behavior is emotional manipulation.
It's a tactic that turns accountability into a distraction, where the harm gets ignored and the focus shifts to controlling how the other person expresses their pain.

[Nem @Nemzsi]

oh yeah im sure your last gf was a crazy psycho bitch with bpd and low self esteem and it had nothing to do with the way you treated her

[lucy @lucykins]

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