What people call “positive masculinity” is functionally indistinguishable from healthy adulthood. Yet generic “how to be a mature person” advice tends to be less popular with men than specifically masculine models, which points to the unsettling conclusion that some men do not
agott, crying: I don't wanna be 50 years old and "just friends" with coco like you and master qifrey
olruggio: okay first of all if I shaved you'd think I was 17
agott, still crying: no I wouldn't
i keep getting atla shipping discourse on my tl and while katara and aang are my preferred hetgem i dont understand why people are so obtuse about z*tara. "how can people ship that?" people online ship literal homophobic minecraft streamers with each other what are you new here
Sometimes I worry that trauma discourse limits our ways of speaking? Last week, I told a friend about my feelings being hurt and she immediately said, “O you have PTSD” and it struck me as strange and useless, that fever to label and sort rather than hear, be, touch.
the original atla series really was lightning in a bottle, aside from some of the comics nothing else thats ever been done with the franchise has even come close to being as good