"if you work out for an hour, ur lifespan increases. but if u work out for an hour and it increases ur lifespan by an hour, isn’t that the same as doing nothing [bc it cancels out]?…instead of exercising, wouldn’t it be healthier to lay down n be happy?”
and if love ever finds me again, i hope it's with someone who thinks about how their actions affect me,someone who considers my feelings before making choices and values my peace as much as their own because I'm not here to survive love again, I'm here to finally live it
all roads lead you back to yourself. to the standards you ignored, the boundaries you softened, the intuition you didn’t trust. life keeps repeating lessons until you finally listen, learn and become a better version of yourself.
Date ppl who are gentle with you bc love is ethical before it is emotional. That part gets skipped a lot. Attraction & chemistry can be loud but even trauma has chemistry too.
someone said “when you lose the emotional attachment to them, you begin to realize how ordinary they are, and that it was your love and energy that made them unique” and i seriously couldn’t have worded it better
the female body loves rituals.
massage oil onto the skin.
wear perfume for yourself.
brew loose-leaf herbal tea.
stretch slowly.
pray before sunrise.
buy flowers every week.
take walks through botanical gardens.
give yourself devotion.
Man's desire to become a father is always paid for by a woman with her body, her health, her career, and her freedom.
But when a woman expects a comfortable life, she is somehow shamed for wanting too much