@Willmason643531@JeremiahDJohns To be fair, we did all make fun of people who mostly ordered pizza instead of cooking their own meals (e.g., pothead frat guy w/empty pizza box under bed).
@TTExulansic It's depressing to see someone spending this much time honing their identity. One of the great tragedies of our time is the loss of so many of the things that used to instill REAL identity--the kind you don't choose. We now have the freedom to opt out of a lot of those things.
@akafaceUS He looks like a very pretty gay boy in drag. The hands are a giveaway. Also, I only ever see men dressed as women doing that kind of hair flipping and fiddling. Also, we are just seeing a head here, filmed at a flattering angle that minimizes shoulder width.
@hecubian_devil No! It's absolutely material. The same way selling a kidney is material. That's illegal because of concern that desperate people could be pressed to sell their organs. The same concern applies to surrogates. There's more to this argument, but I'm out of space.
@MichaelAArouet It's no longer an economic necessity for women to get married, so it's not a priority. Most women will still happily marry for love or sexual attraction and many will marry for friendship. All this really shows up is how many miserable marriages there used to be.
@LisaBritton Really, truly it's just because we don't have to anymore. I'm single and in my mid-50s. I never decided not to get married, I just never met a man who was interested in me that I'd be happier with than without.
@daniellismore TQIA+ tagged onto LGB, borrowed its good reputation and pretty much destroyed it. Thanks to TQIA+, there's now less support for LGB. LGB people don't need or want most of what the TQIA+ want.
@daniellismore There's a fundamental disagreement about what it means to be same sex attracted between these two groups. Of course the LGB should be able to organize on their own if they don't believe a straight woman who transitions and is into men is gay.
@BriannaWu No--it's that the whole persona men put on when they decide they are women is a reductive set of shackles that is a drag (no pun) on women for our entire lives. My mother taught me to suck my stomach in when I was 4. Our lives are blighted by this shit.