I hope I don’t witness anyone casually degrading their fellow man and generally acting like a remorseless toolbox today she says as she logs in at X the remorseless toolbox factory.
@KeturahAbigail How about this if it’s not about her you want me to waddle out on the delta and take a picture of myself washing a towel for the vibes? If it’s not about her don’t use her face maybe? I’ll tundra larp.
@KeturahAbigail You’re acting like a petulant child. I’m asking you simply to seek her permission. It’s basic courtesy. I feel quite protective of her actually. You cannot offer her material assistance right now. I can. I’m simply suggesting not using her for content.
@KeturahAbigail You wouldn’t know. You clearly aren’t speaking to her. Or you wouldn’t need strangers to comb the internet for photos. ASK HER. Absolutely discouraging you need this explained by this many people keturah it’s INAPPROPRIATE
@KeturahAbigail You were raised in an environment where you did not have appropriate role models. You say this yourself. Your behavior is a blind spot. Women who care about you WILL correct you.
@KeturahAbigail Why do you behave like this when given basic counsel? I’ve offered her direct assistance. Please be gracious and remotely open to correction. You’re out of line.
@KeturahAbigail Deleting most of their photos would make me think their photos aren’t free for use in your writing when she’s postpartum and sad posting it just feels so invasive if you have not explicitly asked her how she feels about you using it
@KeturahAbigail I assumed she never gave you permission to use it if you were asking other people for a copy and not her. Perhaps she did tell you it was ok for your article in which case carry on.
There are real people with real families behind accounts here. This is wonderful and often leads to people being able to support and care for each other in community. Assistance should always be direct and meaningful. We don’t take just what we know from online circles and wield that as a weapon against someone without connection first. We are not cannon fodder for ideological commentary. Be reasonable. We aren’t living breathing memes. It’s not a soap opera. Be adults.