tbc my grandpa has never once been strange or weird or made a singular comment. it was simply the thing you tell the girls to begin their victim blaming early. and by flipping the perspective that she was in a way accusing her father of crimes she realized there's no basis for it
i'm uninterested in the fandom drama but this is how i find out italian and (brazilian?) portuguese have the same idioms to talk about cheating, down to not being able to go through doors because of the horns. wondering if there is there any other language that does that